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Why Divorce Rates Are Increasing Among Spouses in Nigeria …Way Out

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Marriage, a sacred institution in many cultures, has always been held in high regard in Nigeria. However, the rising number of divorce cases in recent years is causing concern among observers and stakeholders in the society. What could be the reasons behind this alarming trend? Below are some of the key factors contributing to the growing rate of divorces in Nigeria.

1. Economic Challenges

Financial instability remains one of the leading causes of marital breakdown in Nigeria. Many households struggle with unemployment, inflation, and low wages, which can create stress and tension between spouses. The inability to meet financial obligations often leads to resentment, frequent arguments, and ultimately separation.

2. Infidelity

Infidelity is another major factor contributing to divorce. Cultural expectations sometimes pressure men or women into extramarital affairs, and modern influences have made it easier to maintain such relationships secretly. When discovered, betrayal often erodes trust, making reconciliation difficult.

3. Poor Communication

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Communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship. However, many Nigerian couples struggle with effective communication. Misunderstandings, unspoken grievances, and unresolved conflicts often escalate, leading to irreparable damage in the marriage.

4. Cultural and Religious Differences

Nigeria’s rich cultural and religious diversity can sometimes be a source of division rather than unity in marriages. Differences in cultural practices, values, and religious beliefs can create friction, especially if these issues were not adequately addressed before marriage.

5. Domestic Violence and Abuse

Domestic violence, whether physical, emotional, or psychological, is a growing concern in Nigerian marriages. Many victims choose to leave abusive relationships to protect their well-being and that of their children. Increasing awareness of rights and the availability of support systems have empowered more individuals to take this step.

6. Western Influence and Changing Social Norms

Globalization and exposure to Western ideals have brought about changes in societal attitudes toward marriage and divorce. In the past, divorce was heavily stigmatized, but it is increasingly viewed as a viable option for escaping unhappy unions. Women, in particular, are now more empowered to leave toxic relationships due to changing societal perceptions and improved access to education and employment opportunities.

7. Unrealistic Expectations

Many couples enter marriage with unrealistic expectations of love, finances, and companionship. When these expectations are not met, disappointment can lead to dissatisfaction and conflict, ultimately resulting in separation.

8. Family Interference

In Nigeria, extended families often play a significant role in the lives of married couples. While support from family can be beneficial, excessive interference can cause conflicts and strain relationships. Overbearing in-laws or meddling relatives can create a toxic environment for the couple.

9. Lack of Premarital Counseling

Premarital counseling is crucial for preparing couples for the realities of marriage. Unfortunately, many Nigerian couples do not receive proper counseling before tying the knot. This lack of preparation leaves them ill-equipped to handle marital challenges effectively.

Addressing the Crisis

To reduce the rising divorce rates, Nigerian society must address these underlying causes. Couples should prioritize communication, seek counseling when necessary, and strive for mutual respect and understanding. Additionally, societal institutions, including religious organizations and traditional leaders, must emphasize the importance of realistic expectations and promote conflict resolution.

Divorce may sometimes be inevitable, especially in cases involving abuse or irreconcilable differences. However, fostering a culture of mutual respect, empathy, and preparedness can help reduce the rate of marital breakdowns in Nigeria.

The Way Out of the Divorce Crisis: Practical Solutions for Marital Stability

Divorce has become a significant social issue in many parts of the world, including Nigeria, leading to broken homes, emotional distress, and financial instability. While divorce is sometimes inevitable, especially in abusive or toxic relationships, it is crucial to explore ways to reduce the frequency of marital breakdowns and foster stronger, healthier relationships. Below are some actionable solutions to address the divorce crisis effectively.

1. Encourage Premarital Counseling

Premarital counseling prepares couples for the realities of marriage by helping them understand each other’s values, expectations, and potential challenges. Religious organizations, community groups, and professional counselors should advocate for and provide accessible premarital counseling sessions to equip couples with the tools to navigate married life.

2. Promote Open Communication

Effective communication is the foundation of a successful marriage. Couples should be encouraged to express their feelings, needs, and concerns openly and respectfully. Workshops and seminars on communication skills can help partners learn to resolve conflicts constructively, fostering deeper understanding and connection.

3. Address Financial Challenges Together

Financial strain is a leading cause of divorce. Couples should work as a team to manage their finances effectively, including setting budgets, saving for future goals, and sharing financial responsibilities. Financial literacy programs targeting married couples can provide practical strategies to reduce money-related stress.

4. Tackle Infidelity Through Counseling

Infidelity often stems from unmet emotional or physical needs. Couples experiencing infidelity should be encouraged to seek professional counseling to rebuild trust and address the root causes of the betrayal. While not every relationship can survive infidelity, proper intervention can help many couples heal and move forward.

5. Strengthen Emotional Intelligence

Developing emotional intelligence (EQ) helps individuals manage their emotions and empathize with their partners. Higher EQ enables couples to handle conflicts more effectively and maintain emotional stability during challenging times. Workshops and self-help resources on emotional intelligence can make a significant difference.

6. Promote Individual Growth Within Marriage

Sometimes, marriages fail because one or both partners feel stifled or undervalued. Encouraging spouses to pursue personal growth, hobbies, and career aspirations can enhance their sense of fulfillment, which positively impacts their relationship.

7. Address Domestic Violence

Domestic violence is a non-negotiable issue that must be tackled head-on. Victims of abuse should have access to safe spaces, legal support, and counseling. Additionally, communities should focus on educating men and women about the importance of respect and non-violence in relationships to prevent abuse before it starts.

8. Reduce External Interference

Extended family and societal pressures often exacerbate marital issues. Couples should be encouraged to set boundaries with their families and prioritize their partnership. Creating support groups for newlyweds can help them navigate external pressures and focus on their relationship.

9. Foster a Culture of Conflict Resolution

Instead of viewing divorce as the first option during conflicts, couples should be taught conflict-resolution techniques. Mediation services and family support programs can guide couples in finding middle ground without resorting to separation.

10. Reframe Societal Expectations

Society often places unrealistic expectations on couples, especially regarding gender roles, finances, and parenting. Changing these narratives through education, media campaigns, and community engagement can reduce the pressure on spouses, allowing them to build relationships based on mutual respect and realistic goals.

11. Leverage Faith and Support Systems

For many Nigerians, faith plays a central role in their lives. Religious institutions can provide spiritual guidance, marriage counseling, and community support to help couples navigate difficulties. Encouraging couples to draw strength from their faith can often provide the resolve needed to work through challenges.

12. Make Professional Counseling Accessible

Marital counseling services should be made affordable and widely available. Government and private organizations can partner to establish counseling centers in urban and rural areas, ensuring that couples have access to professional help when needed.

Conclusion

While divorce may sometimes be necessary for personal well-being, many marital issues can be resolved through proactive measures and a supportive environment. By addressing the root causes of marital conflicts and equipping couples with the tools to handle challenges, society can significantly reduce divorce rates and create stronger, healthier families.

Working together—individuals, families, communities, and institutions—Nigeria can overcome the divorce crisis and restore the sanctity of marriage.

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Bandits kidnap Sokoto Deputy Governor’s relatives, others in fresh attack

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Over 100 peasants abducted as gunmen invade Zamfara communities
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At least eight residents, including relatives of Sokoto State Deputy Governor Idris Muhammad Gobir, have been reportedly kidnapped in Garin Idi village, Sabon Birni Local Government Area of Sokoto State.

According to eyewitness accounts, the attackers arrived around 1:00am on Thursday on about eight motorcycles, shooting sporadically as they invaded the community.

The gunfire forced residents to flee into nearby bushes and other safe areas to escape.

A local source told Daily Trust that the attackers operated freely in the village for nearly two hours without any immediate security intervention.

The resident described the incident as one of the most intense attacks the community has experienced, adding that fear has become a constant part of daily life.

Another witness said the assailants initially abducted about 30 people, mostly women and children, but later released some due to limited space on their motorcycles.

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Ultimately, they left with eight victims—three men and five women.

Those kidnapped were identified as Hassana Adare Maifata, Rabi Alhaji Ishaqa, Kwamuso Umar, Yar’aji Garba, Kabiru Alkasim, Sani Muazu, Jadi Alkasim (a patient), and a woman believed to be related to the deputy governor.

The attackers were also reported to have raided a phone charging shop in the village, stealing over 100 mobile phones, power banks, and about ₦40,000 in cash after the operator fled the scene.

Residents expressed deep concern over the worsening insecurity in the area, calling on authorities, including the deputy governor, to urgently intervene and strengthen security presence.

One resident lamented that despite their ties to the deputy governor, they feel abandoned in the face of repeated attacks, urging immediate action to prevent further incidents.

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Church suspends Priest over alleged fake miracles, prophecies

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The Church of Nigeria (Anglican Communion) has taken disciplinary action against a member of the clergy, Reverend Ifunaya Maduka, following allegations bordering on staged miracles and questionable prophetic activities at St Paul’s Parish, Nteje, in Anambra State.

The suspension was announced by the Diocese on the Niger under the leadership of the Bishop, Rt. Rev. Owen Nwokolo, who confirmed that the priest has been removed from his duties for a period of six months without salary while further investigations continue.

According to the church authorities, the decision followed reports that the cleric allegedly conducted arranged prophetic sessions and miracle displays involving individuals said to have been coordinated or financially induced to participate. These activities were reportedly presented to worshippers as divine interventions.

The Diocese further stated that Reverend Maduka was confronted with the allegations and, based on their account, admitted involvement in the incidents after being presented with supporting information.

The suspension was formally communicated in a letter signed by Bishop Nwokolo and dated April 27, in which the Church expressed deep concern over what it described as conduct inconsistent with the expectations of ordained ministry within the Anglican Communion.

The letter outlined that the priest’s actions raised serious concerns, including false prophecy, misuse of spiritual authority, and conduct capable of misleading members of the congregation and the wider public.

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Church leadership noted that prior to the development, the cleric had been engaged on several occasions regarding his ministerial conduct and had maintained that his practices aligned with Christian doctrine and Anglican standards.

However, the Diocese said recent findings contradicted those assurances.

Describing the situation as damaging to the image of the Church, the leadership stated that the conduct had undermined trust, brought disrepute to the ministry, and created grounds for disciplinary intervention in line with ecclesiastical rules.

As part of the suspension directives, Reverend Maduka has been instructed to hand over all church property, financial records, and official documents in his possession to the appropriate parish authorities and vacate the premises within a specified timeframe.

The Church also confirmed that a disciplinary panel will be set up within the coming weeks to conduct a further review of the allegations and determine any additional measures in line with church regulations.

The Diocese concluded its communication by expressing hope for reflection and repentance, urging the suspended cleric to return to the core values of his calling and ministry.

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Attorney General asks Court to deregister ADC, Accord, three other parties

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The Attorney General of the Federation has urged the Federal High Court in Abuja to compel the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) to deregister five political parties, arguing that their continued existence violates constitutional provisions and undermines Nigeria’s electoral integrity.

In court filings, the Attorney General contended that unless the court intervenes, INEC would “continue to act in breach of its constitutional duty” by retaining parties that have failed to meet the minimum requirements prescribed by law.

The filing stressed that the right to associate as a political party is not absolute and must be exercised within constitutional limits. It further argued that it is in the interest of justice for the court to grant the reliefs sought by the plaintiffs.

The suit, marked FHC/ABJ/CS/2637/2026 and filed at the Abuja Judicial Division of the Federal High Court, lists the Incorporated Trustees of the National Forum of Former Legislators as the plaintiff.

The defendants include INEC as the first defendant and the Attorney General of the Federation as the second defendant, alongside five political parties: African Democratic Congress (ADC), Action Alliance (AA), Action Peoples Party (APP), Accord (A), and Zenith Labour Party (ZLP).

At the center of the issue in the case is whether INEC has a constitutional obligation to remove parties that fail to meet electoral performance thresholds set out in Section 225A of the 1999 Constitution (as amended) and reinforced by the Electoral Act 2022 and INEC’s own regulations.

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The plaintiffs argue that the affected parties have persistently failed to satisfy the constitutional benchmarks required to retain their registration. These include winning at least 25 per cent of votes in a state during a presidential election or securing at least one elective seat at the national, state or local government level.

They contend that the parties performed poorly in the 2023 general elections and subsequent by-elections, failing to win seats across key tiers of government, yet continue to be recognised by INEC as eligible political platforms.

The plaintiffs maintain that this continued recognition is unlawful and undermines the integrity of Nigeria’s electoral system.

In the affidavit supporting the suit, the forum’s national coordinator, Igbokwe Raphael Nnanna, states that allowing parties that have not met constitutional requirements to remain on the register “is unconstitutional, illegal and a violation” of the governing legal framework.

The suit asks the court to declare that INEC is duty-bound to deregister such parties and to compel the commission to do so before preparations for the 2027 elections advance further.

Beyond declaratory reliefs, the plaintiffs are also seeking far-reaching orders that would bar the affected parties from participating in the next general elections or engaging in political activities such as campaigns, rallies and primaries. They further request injunctions restraining INEC from recognising or dealing with the parties in any official capacity unless and until they comply strictly with constitutional provisions.

Central to the plaintiffs’ argument is their interpretation of the law as imposing a mandatory duty on INEC. They argue that the use of the word “shall” in the Constitution leaves no room for discretion once a party fails to meet the stipulated thresholds.

In their written address, they rely on statutory provisions and judicial precedents to contend that electoral performance is an objective condition that must be enforced to maintain discipline, transparency, and accountability in the political system.

Attorney General backs plaintiff
In a notice filed pursuant to Order 15 Rule 1 of the Federal High Court (Civil Procedure) Rules, 2019, the Attorney General, who is a defendant in the suit, formally admitted the plaintiff’s case to the extent of his constitutional responsibilities.

He maintained that, as the chief law officer of the federation, he is duty-bound to defend and uphold the Constitution, including ensuring compliance with the Electoral Act and other laws governing elections in Nigeria.

The filing emphasised that the Attorney General’s role extends beyond litigation to preventive oversight, ensuring that laws are faithfully implemented to maintain public confidence in the electoral process. It described the case as a public interest litigation aimed at safeguarding democratic integrity and promoting constitutional observance.

According to the document, the Attorney General argued that citizens, including the plaintiff group, have the right to challenge constitutional breaches, particularly where electoral processes are concerned. He added that supporting such litigation aligns with his dual role as both a defender of the state and an advocate for citizens’ rights.

The submission also highlighted the broader implications of non-compliance by political parties. It argued that the continued existence of parties that fail to meet constitutional thresholds contributes to ballot congestion, increases the cost of election administration, and undermines the intent of Section 225A of the 1999 Constitution (as amended), which empowers INEC to deregister underperforming parties.

The plaintiff further contended that INEC has no residual discretion to retain parties that do not satisfy the constitutional criteria, insisting that failure to deregister them constitutes a continuing breach of constitutional duty. The suit warned that such inaction could be challenged through public interest litigation, as is the case before the court.

Additionally, the filing noted that the plaintiff, comprising former legislators, possesses the requisite standing to institute the action, having been directly involved in the enactment and oversight of Nigeria’s constitutional and electoral framework.

The Attorney General also underscored the importance of access to justice, arguing that his support for the suit would help bridge gaps faced by citizens seeking to enforce constitutional rights. He maintained that collaboration between government institutions and civic actors is essential to strengthening legal literacy, accountability, and democratic participation.

The Attorney General of the Federation is represented in the suit by a team of lawyers led by Prof. J. O. Olatoke, SAN, alongside O. J. David, U. O. Olufadi, D. O. Bamidele, V. D. Maiye, Waheed Abdulraheem and A. K. Abdulmumin, all of whom signed the court filing before the Federal High Court in Abuja.

The case, which has drawn significant attention within political and legal circles, could have far-reaching implications for Nigeria’s party system ahead of future elections, particularly if the court grants the request to compel INEC to act against the affected parties. (TRIBUNE)

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